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Debbie was sitting with Rebecca, the activities director,
when I came in for a visit yesterday. She told Rebecca, “There’s Bob!” I am
grateful that she still knows my name at times while accepting that it is
becoming less frequent. Debbie continues to be well adjusted to life at Edgewater
and is living her best possible life there. She is calmer. She is less aware of
what she has lost and makes the most of what she has left.
Because of my daily visits I am acutely aware of the daily
routines of the residents and the staff. It is a joy being with the other residents
in memory care too– each one has story and in a small way I have become a part
of their world. I have connected with them, and I know I have made their final
journey a little bit better. It is sad when they pass, and two have passed in
October. No one recovers from dementia.
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There is Carol who a few months ago complained loudly about everything but is calmer now. When Debbie has visitors, we are sure to introduce them to Carol and she lights up like she has been selected to meet the royal family. Judy and Cindy always sit near each other and look out for each other. Judy always has a smile and wants to share a thought or two like it’s a secret. Cindy will always make eye contact and smile while she waves hello. Maggie, a retired teacher, has a great sense of humor. Pat is often in pain when she moves but has a sense of dignity that is evident to all. Sally’s husband comes in every day like me to help get them settled at the table for meals. Jerry does the same for his wife.
There are some that have few visitors but do get a lot of attention from the staff. It’s a community and I am grateful that we found it for Debbie.
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